Dabney Hayes, LPCC, LPC
North Carolina · 14 years in practice
Dabney Hayes is a licensed counselor with 14 years of clinical experience.
License and registration
- LCMHC, North Carolina
- 14628 · expires June 2026
- LMHC, Florida
- MH17976 · expires March 2027
- LMHC, Washington
- LH61246990 · expires April 2026
- LPC, Colorado
- 0016842 · expires August 2027
- LPCC, California
- 21269 · expires November 2027
- LPC, South Carolina
- 11130 · expires August 2027
- NPI
- 1265743801 · national provider identifier
- Years in practice
- 14
- Languages
- English
Details are as listed on the therapist's public professional profile. You can check the license with the issuing state board, and the NPI with the national registry.
About Dabney
Dabney Hayes is a licensed counselor with 14 years of clinical experience. She holds LPCC and LPC credentials and practices from North Carolina. Dabney focuses on helping people move past shame, addiction, and low self-esteem so they can live more confidently and authentically.
She works with a wide range of concerns including anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, and compassion fatigue. She also helps with parenting stress, career pressures, sleeping and eating problems, and ADHD.
Background and approach
Dabney pays attention to issues like abandonment, attachment challenges, body image, and the stresses of caregiving. Her approach is collaborative and down-to-earth. Sessions emphasize understanding what matters to each person and building practical skills for everyday life.
She draws on Existential ideas about meaning and choice while using evidence-based techniques to change unhelpful patterns. Dabney blends Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based work, Client-Centered listening, and Cognitive Behavioral strategies. That mix lets her tailor sessions to what a person needs most - whether that is learning new coping tools, improving relationships, or processing past hurts.
People describe her as caring and nonjudgmental. She offers individual and group experience and supports people through life transitions, intimacy questions, and recovery from loss. Dabney accepts international clients and conducts sessions in English.
Focus areas and approaches
Everything Dabney lists on their public professional profile, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Depression
- Compassion fatigue
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Bipolar disorder
- Coping with life changes
- Coaching
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Dabney names
- Existential Therapy
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Naming an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each therapist lists and does not check training records.
Online support
How Dabney’s Approaches Work Online
Existential therapy looks at meaning, choice, and how people make sense of difficult life events. It helps when someone feels stuck, uncertain, or disconnected from what matters to them. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, focuses on noticing thoughts without fighting them and taking steps toward valued goals; it often helps with anxiety, depression, and compulsive behaviors.Attachment-Based Therapy pays attention to the ways early relationships shape current patterns. It can help with trust, closeness, and repeated relationship problems by building awareness and new ways of connecting. Dabney draws from these approaches and from client-centered listening and cognitive behavioral tools to shape sessions around each person's needs.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. She will discuss goals and try methods that match a person's situation and preferences. That collaborative process helps clarify whether more focus on meaning, acceptance, skills, or attachment healing will be most useful.
Online sessions give flexibility - video calls for face-to-face conversation, phone sessions when bandwidth or hands-free time matter, live chat for brief check-ins, and text-based messaging for ongoing support between appointments. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy lives and to keep momentum between meetings.
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Questions people ask
What kinds of concerns does Dabney address?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, compassion fatigue, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting and many other life challenges listed in her profile.
What is her therapy style like?
Her style is collaborative and down-to-earth. She combines existential questions about meaning with practical skills training to help people change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has 14 years of experience providing therapy in individual and group settings.
What are her credentials and location?
Dabney holds LPCC and LPC credentials and practices from North Carolina.
In which languages can I meet with her?
Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How does payment and cost work?
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